# The Living Laboratory > The relationship with your Self makes all others possible. This is an offering for those examining their relationship with their deepening Self, the most primary relationship there is. Every other relationship moves through it. Taye Bela Corby is a certified EFT Practitioner (AAMET), Gene Keys Ambassador Guide and Host, and licensed Art of Feminine Presence® Teacher Level II, based in Fallbrook, California. The work draws from Gene Keys, EFT, Art of Feminine Presence, and RelationshipVision™. ## Who this is for This is for Self-aware lifetime learners — people already doing their own inner work, ready to see clearly and act on what they see. Not for those looking for a quick fix or a resolved problem; the work here doesn't promise resolution, it builds the practice of clear seeing and right action inside relationships that may never fully resolve. Age, religion, culture, and orientation are not filters here. The one thing that matters is frequency — capacity for mature, emotionally rich, wise conversation, and for meeting life as art. When it's real, it recognizes itSelf. The Gene Keys Sacred Circle is specifically for Fallbrook, California, and the Gene Keys community. The One-to-One coaching stands on its own — open to anyone in a long-term intimate relationship doing deep Self-work, with or without the Gene Keys as part of their path. ## Core pages - [Alchemy](https://tayebelacorby.com/alchemy.html): a present-tense transmission of the alchemy itself — meeting the charge, returning to Self, becoming available for relationship - [The Laboratory](https://tayebelacorby.com/laboratory.html): the vocabulary and framework, including the 51% Self-Assessment Dial - [About Me](https://tayebelacorby.com/about.html): who Taye is - [The Strands](https://tayebelacorby.com/strands.html): ways to work together - [Contact](https://tayebelacorby.com/contact.html): how to reach Taye - [Lab Notes](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes.html): personal essays documenting the work in progress ## Lab Notes Lab Notes are first-person field notes, not advice columns. They are written from inside the work, not about it. - [The Vow Never Grew](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/the-vow-never-grew.html): on a vow made at eleven, the marriages and men that came after, and meeting Daniel under a sky full of shooting stars - [Barbara Donna, Twenty-One Years Later](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/barbara-donna-twenty-one-years-later.html): on the name she carried for fifty-four years, the name she chose twenty-one years ago, and the number that keeps returning - [Anchoring a New Octave](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/anchoring-a-new-octave.html): on turning seventy-five, forty years with Daniel, and the song that names it - [The Bridge Between Them Is Me](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/the-bridge-between-them-is-me.html): on a weekend with her brother-in-law, an old comparison rising, and the difference between trusting resonance and trusting someone else's certainty - [Guise Fields](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/guise-fields.html): on the feeling that lets me be caring instead of honest, and what it costs - [My Heart Broke to Leave Him for My Self](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/my-heart-broke.html): on debt, capacity, relief, and value - [When Love Waits](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/when-love-waits.html): on a gift offered that took three years to land - [The Laboratory of My Own Contradictions](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/the-laboratory-of-my-own-contradictions.html) - [The Practice of Acting Before Authority](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/the-practice-of-acting-before-authority.html) - [The Energy of Relief](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/the-energy-of-relief.html) - [Awake. Aware. Alive. Alert.](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/awake-aware-alive-alert.html) - [Opening the Venus Sequence](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/opening-the-venus-sequence.html) - [The Most Important Relationship is with my Self](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/the-most-important-relationship-is-with-my-self.html) - [The Dark](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/the-dark.html) - [The Edge](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/the-edge.html) - [Still Here](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/still-here.html) - [A 39 Year First Date](https://tayebelacorby.com/lab-notes/a-39-year-first-date.html) ## Songs Some Lab Notes carry a companion song, linked quietly at the end of the note. The songs are not promoted separately. They are a second way into the same material, for those who find it before they have words for it. - [I Just Like It When My Baby Is Right](https://tayebelacorby.com/i-just-like-it-when-my-baby-is-right/): companion to "Anchoring a New Octave," a prayer for Daniel, forty years in - [Grand Reunion](https://tayebelacorby.com/grand-reunion/): companion to "Anchoring a New Octave," a three-stage transformation — resistance into desire, desire into action, peace with all of me - [Transform](https://tayebelacorby.com/transform/): a ceremonial chant, companion to "The Vow Never Grew" - [Your Own Side](https://tayebelacorby.com/your-own-side.html): an interactive two-screen experience, companion to "The Most Important Relationship is with my Self" - [Honey-Eyed](https://tayebelacorby.com/honey-eyed.html) - [Overflows](https://tayebelacorby.com/overflows.html): a need reached outside, then found it could grow from within — love overflowing once it's met on the inside - [What I Carry](https://tayebelacorby.com/what-i-carry.html): companion to "My Heart Broke to Leave Him for My Self" - [Your Best Friend](https://tayebelacorby.com/your-best-friend.html): lyrics by Daniel A. Linder, MFT, produced by Taye Bela Corby, also the Home page's entry point - [75 Years, 40 Together](https://tayebelacorby.com/75-years-40-together.html): lyrics by Daniel Linder, MFT, companion to "Anchoring a New Octave" - [Safe to Open](https://tayebelacorby.com/safe-to-open.html): companion to the Laboratory's Accurate Carrying vocabulary entry — the felt experience beneath the framework - [Hungry Heart](https://tayebelacorby.com/hungry-heart.html): companion to "The Bridge Between Them Is Me" — an ache met with a courageous pause instead of a reach outside - [Opening the Venus Sequence](https://tayebelacorby.com/opening-the-venus-sequence.html): companion to the Lab Note of the same name, an opening attunement that meets the frozen places and turns them toward gratitude - [The Edge](https://tayebelacorby.com/the-edge.html): a birthday song written for Taye's sister, companion to the Lab Note of the same name ## What this site is not Not psychotherapy or licensed mental health treatment. Not content for children. Not theboywiththebigear.com, which is a separate site for Taye's children's book.